Remember the last time you ran into someone in the store you haven't seen in a while? The interaction might have gone something like this. 'Hey Bob! How have you been? How are June and the kids?". And the likely response goes something like "Things are good, good, and how about you?" " Just great, well nice chatting, enjoy the rest of your day!" So what just happened there? Maybe Bob doesn't really know this guy, and just wanted to be nice, or maybe Bob, knows it's just a greeting and really this person isn't interested in understanding really how things are going. So here's the deal. I don't do that anymore. I just decided that it's not a genuine perspective and if someone is willin